I eat like 3 unhealthy snacks a day but I also eat a lot of healthy food (fruits/vegetables, yogurt, lean meat, etc.) I don’t want to cut out the unhealthy parts of my lifestyle completely but to be a leaner self, how often do you think is good to splurge? Once a day, once a month. And how do I go about feeling okay about the number on the scale being what I consider high. I feel like I wouldn’t be happy until I was at about 125 but being in the shape I am already, a 25 lb loss seems so hard.
Firstly here is a link to my advice on self love
I think you need to focus on what you said in the first message, about all the things you like about yourself, because that will help you more, and you sound like a babe. Learn to love yourself as you are, and just have your goal for now to be healthy, which seems to be what you are doing. Don’t focus on the number on the scale, because it means absolutely nothing regarding how you look or your worth as a person. Being small doesn’t make a person any prettier, and vice versa. There is no problem in wanting to work on your body to bring it down to a size that you want (as long as it is a healthy size, you don’t want to hurt yourself), just because it is something you desire. But don’t continue thinking that you won’t be happy until you reach that, and don’t attribute numbers to your goals, because that can be frustrating and you can get obsessed. Just continue doing your thing, make healthy choices, eat things that are tasty when you want to eat tasty things.
Get to a point of loving yourself as you are on the outside as well as who you are as a person. Then if you want to lose weight just because it is something you want, not because you feel you need to to be happy or pretty, go for it. I know I already said that, but the motivation behind it is what is important. And when you track your progress, don’t use a scale, or worry about numbers or sizes, just look at yourself naked in the mirror and take pictures and just learn your body, love your body, and take care of it however you want to.
13. Just did this
14. Do you have any kinks?
I don’t consider myself to be particularly kinky. But I like being spanked, and I enjoy calling my boyfriend daddy and when he tells me I am a good slut. The usual stuff
22. What’s the most unusual thing you’ve done nude?
Hmmm, nothing really comes to mind. Sometimes when I am taking pictures in my kitchen I make food or coffee. I don’t really do weird things while naked apparently.
31. Age you started masturbating? How did you discover/learn about it?
I was around 11 or 12. I was laying in bed one night and I started rubbing something against my clit area, just because. I kept doing it because it felt good and then I had an orgasm and had no fucking idea what I just did to myself and thought that I was going to die that night haha. So I just went to sleep and I woke up in the morning, meaning I hadn’t died. So I continued to try it from then on. I figured out pretty quickly what I had done and what I continued to do.
32. What position do you typically masturbate in (laying on back, on stomach, sitting up, etc.)?
Sitting leaning back usually, or laying down.
33. Did this one
34. What do you masturbate to (porn, smut, imagination, etc.)?
Imagination or porn usually. Very rarely I will read erotica, but sometimes I get caught up in the story or am too impatient haha. My favorite erotic story is just an awesome story, with an awesome ending (the first part of it at least, I only learned recently that there are several other chapters to it).
12. Have you ever been fisted (anally or vaginally)?
No thank you
33. Describe your masturbation routine, technique, etc.
Am I horny? Yes. Okay. Find enjoyable viewing (usually amateur, I don’t like regular porn generally) (usually with ladies). Unzip pants, reach hand in, rub clit with finger tips, if I feel like it will happen to soon, I ease up, maybe switch to a different video, then continue, and then orgasm. Go team. That is just a general way I do it, I like to mix it up a lot though.
66. Do you “squirt?”
I have never, I don’t know if I can. Doesn’t matter to me either way.